Pros and cons of dating a man 10 years older Cyber sex chat no sign up
Hence, the phrase “men get better with age.” We won’t talk about what happens to women as they age here…Today, men don’t have to go out and hunt food. So, the “security” that women seek is mostly thought to mean money.Sorry, but the sad truth is that women are attracted to wealth.Some of the other reasons commonly cited for women dating older men is that they are better in bed, more chivalrous, have better apartments, more ready to have children, are patient, and more assertive.But none of these “pros” of dating older men necessarily hold up.They’ve been around the block a time or two, so they’re experienced in relationships, and they may be better apt at dealing with relationship issues. A partner you can take advice from is important to your personal growth.Then again, they’re experienced, and their relationships may not have worked out in the past.These surveys which lay out the “acceptable” or “preferred” age gap are a bit useless unless you take into account the age of the person. For example, for a pair of teenagers, a 1 year age gap could make a big difference in maturity and life focus.With a 60 year old man, 10 years hardly seems like a big age gap.
Of course this can be a wonderful thing when it comes to quality of life…and you no longer have to fear your landlord or pick up the check.
Recent stats show that marriages are within a small age gap. A study published in found that divorced men are much more likely to remarry a much younger woman. It also might be because the men are looking for someone different than their ex wives.
Or maybe they are scared of dating women their age after being out of the game so long…
If you look at all the so-called “pros” of dating older men, you will find that most of them have a dark underside which could make them a con.
You’d be lying to yourself if you said that age doesn’t matter in relationships. It just doesn’t matter as much as other relationship factors, like having common life goals, being at the same maturity level, being sexually compatible, supporting each other’s ambitions, and sharing the desire to have children or not.